Today I met while on the go such a beggar: he was wearing relatively clean, there is no obvious physical disability, is deaf. He does not make the poor of the state, just quietly sitting in the street corner in front of them the iron box. When someone alms, he took one hand to the other people coins into the box. Then put the money count, into the arms.
I have seen countless beggars, or being in the crowd to ask for, or showed their sympathy for the tragic story of people, what is more, to make children pester you, you do not give them your thighs and hold on hold. Some of them look really pathetic, but I do not know why, they face more of a heart disgusted available today, the beggar is not the same, I Dunsheng sympathy.
Arguably, this group needs our attention and sympathy, we can lend a helping hand with their meager forces to help them look. However, some of them entirely using social compassion, deliberately put a begging gesture, such a person, there is always a deceptive feeling.
In the end what is, let’s face them, unfortunately, be otherwise? It may be the motivation!
In fact, the life of people are playing a role in a variety of beggars. When your business is a shortage of aid funds need friends; difficult life when you need the help of others; feelings of confusion when you need someone to understand ...... However, we do not think this is the begging, because I have the ability to return ah ! Moreover, like the difficulties we would encounter, such short-term assistance is nothing dishonorable.
Even lose face, put aside his dignity, but also not a bad idea. Who is not any one difficulty it? In particular, the pressure in a flooded people, the beleaguered people of working life, how many people need other people’s psychological comfort, need someone to love charity, so then you have to put aside self-esteem, "fish and bear’s paw," how can I have both!
I think, not necessarily when undignified Sadly, the ancient Han Xin Ren Kuaxiazhiru, then do not help Han became famous Mody, mainly to see his motives. If you do not timely motivation away begging, blindly using other people’s sympathy, then sad, even shameful!
People are very fragile, in accepting certain facts, always like to find out a lot to beautify his reasons. This is understandable, but facts are facts, and then how to escape, you also need to face. Begging, sometimes not brilliant, but who have the desire but not the ability, we tend to take begging behavior. In this sense, each of us is the life of begging, begging us not only money but nothing more.