Author: Peng Wang
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About happy, benevolent see benevolence and the wise see wisdom. But anyway, happy reflect a pleasant mood, a good feeling. Happiness is a stranger a smile, a winter night cup of strong that tea lovers embracing the line of the figure, the elderly Xiangruyimo life, impetuous moment when the mind is quiet, when families travel soon warm exhort Once happy ...... and introduced business, pleasure has become a money, profits and wealth.
Not surmise shallow, I give happiness under the definition: Happiness is a way to transfer that can infect a better mood. For a family, happy parents, the child will be happy; For others, you’re happy, people will be happy. Give roses, hand left lingering fragrance, talking about is the truth. Happy and healthy accompanied by the line, what is the ultimate goal of our struggle is everyone? I think that is all "0" in front of "1", then "1" followed by the continual increase in "0." The "1" contains health, but also includes happiness, when the "0" before the "1" ceased to exist, that is, we are not happy caused due to unhealthy, then the loss of "a" and "0" Whatever has changed more was meaningless. Perhaps this is "Without the skin, hair adhere to" the profound meaning. Moreover, life itself is a process that can be complaining, trouble restless life, it can be to deal with a smile, happy life ahead. However, due to different people’s knowledge, experience, qualifications, level, mood, treat and happy attitude is different. Sometimes we ring true because of the cause, Ungrateful lovers, friends, betrayal, and so matters do moan and groan, lose, seriously affecting the efficiency and quality of life. Since happiness is so important, is that not everyone recognize its significance, and personally implemented and has been happy? Or if we have a happy state of mind at work in life, happy attitude? I think the answer is not entirely sure.
I feel happy this is both a wonderful, wonderful feeling again is the concept of "ten of hearts" to break down, maybe it will become more plentiful, more concrete, more realistic and more practical. The so-called "ten of hearts" is to be "loyal, responsible, ambitious, open-minded, attentive, wisdom, harmony heart, tolerance, confidence and gratitude."
A loyal heart is the foundation. Confucian culture has always stressed that the concept of filial faithful, it is this idea of the appeal, only the main food stocks Jie cutting move to help Gong and succeed. After Gong and succeed, but refused to be reward Jie, while Hermitage Mianshan. Ming Dynasty poet Lin Kui in "Cold Food title meson Temple" wrote: "But so dead people can return home, shame will share the meat easily Monkey." Of course, words and deeds have blind loyalty Jie ingredients, but he sacrifice justice Jie Fang good deeds, has become China’s traditional concept of a real man spiritual origins. This spirit conceived and created numerous people with lofty ideals in Chinese history, heroes, constitute the backbone of the Chinese nation and unyielding. His disdain for the fame and fortune of false rape 欺罔, dead lift absurd anger, cut his food stocks monarch spirit of sacrifice, it is still thrifty nation Honesty, faithfulness comity embodies the traditional virtues. On a deeper level, the Jie body contains a sincere love for the motherland deep feelings. Perhaps it is this loyalty patriotic feelings, is that people with "Cold Food Festival", "festival" to miss his root cause.
Today, we have no need to express loyalty to the heart with the king’s move to cut stocks of food, but this idea can not be discarded. Both for colleagues and friends, the unit team, or nation, should really pay, loyalty practice. The only way people can trust each other, units and teams to vibrant, state and country to peaceful coexistence. In fact, loyalty is love, yes right teachers and classmates, colleagues and friends, family, home, unit team, the nation’s big love. Such love as long as action, no confession. Therefore, only the silent love. For colleagues and friends, we would do what he (she) ladder to success, and in the summer for him (her) sent a cool, in the winter for him (her) sent to the sun; team for the unit, the nation, the as part of his, it is necessary there is a female child is never too ugly, dog sees a poor family’s sincere feelings, with their burning youth, lifetime commitment, virtue Pursuits, for her dedication to the wisdom and strength for her winning color and glory!
When Marshal Chen Yi Lingnan guerrilla, Shenxianzhongwei, exhaustion, but he is still optimistic attitude and describe the "snow pressure pine, pine pretty and straight, want to know pine noble, until the snow when" loyalty verse. Deng Xiaoping, chief architect of reform and opening up and downs rough life, suffered hardships, but his tough-quality, open-minded mind and the party, the people, the state and the nation of faith very loyal, affectionate, said: "I am Chinese son of the people, I deeply love my motherland and the people, "this is the voice of the true feelings of a Communist Party member, is also a open-minded, cheerful, happy happy elderly ｃｒｅａｔｅ true confession: for love of the motherland and the people great love; because loyalty to the motherland, the people and the inner belief of the faithful.
Second, the heart responsibility dedication premise society. "Responsibility" is a responsibility that we require us how to do the work norms; "Ren" is our job requires us to complete the task by the rules. Our assessment of a person competent incompetent, mainly to see whether he has a sense of responsibility, whether the requirement to complete the task. So a person to even their jobs are not clear what tasks should be completed, it is estimated that he is difficult to be happy, or that he simply can not be happy; he can not succeed, or that he always difficult to succeed. I had planned to invite the Lenovo Group, Mr. Liu to Changsha for the godfather of modern enterprise management report, the first thing he said was: Lenovo’s success thanks to a high degree of responsibility of employees, which is an important prerequisite. If one team, one unit greater development, each member will be responsible for paying and gain more happiness, because you get the service object recognition, appreciation of leadership colleagues, relatives and friends of affirmation, so naturally will have a pleasant mood and good feeling.
Third, the heart is the cause of the success ladder. The second sentence of Mr. Liu said is: Lenovo’s success thanks to our backbone has a strong sense of professionalism middle. Dedication to leadership should have been told, but I said that was why everyone is successful, each team ladder of success it? Because everyone is development, today you are the waiter, is Clerks, probably because you have a high degree of professionalism and upgrade the backbone for the middle and even the future become the company’s executives, led units, so he is to each person critical. IBM’s Lou Gerstner, former president of the United States in his book "Who Says Elephants Can not Dance," a book, which brought back to life the experience of IBM summarized as "critical key: know and love their careers", by extension, any one team, a department needs to have a strong sense of professionalism and members, the only way, teams and departments in order to have a good mental state and development potential, conquering, invincible. Team members will be responsible for paying with a sense of accomplishment and gain pleasure.
Dedication and sense of direction or a sense of urgency. Any industry has a brand, government agencies are no exception. As a unit or team members, paying particular attention to the feedback control service object information, which is key to our work to improve and enhance the level of service decision making, but also to succeed, to ｃｒｅａｔｅ value. This is the sense of urgency. Sense of direction refers to the marketing strategy, the direction is not correct, it will poles apart. Therefore, no matter what our work should happily promote our services, good use of the opportunity to take the initiative in planning and marketing, to safeguard the image of the unit through various channels and outreach groups, otherwise, it will be further marginalized, is further weakened . Mao Zedong speaking, people have a little spirit. I put the ambitious summarized as "every day in a state of war." Have a good mental state, only to be able officers, stewards, and constantly strive to do nothing direction.
Establish the service object is always right idea (even if he is wrong). Why? Because he is our god. It also presents a new problem that we in the end really works? I think this issue has at least three levels: one for the country. This is an obligation as a citizen; Second, work as a unit or team. It establishes the reasonableness and value of our work; third is to work for yourself. We have to get through the work of living conditions, work experience, to prepare for the next stage of development. If so, what we do not love it, what it is not happy, there is no reason not to teams, units and their own development and work hard, study hard, be familiar with the business, to become the industry experts do? What is the measure of success? I think it is the satisfaction of the service object is to achieve the team, unit and their own values. Development teams and units, and our own value will increase. Therefore, the maintenance team and unit image, safeguard the core interests of the team and the unit is ambitious embodies.
Fourth, the humble heart is the path to knowledge learned. Taiwan Normal University Professor Zeng Shiqiang pointed out that a person must have "four knowledge": knowledge, common sense, courage, insight. This "four know" are to be open-minded to make progress to get to school before. "Only much cattle grazing to extrusion good milk; people only learn to write good works." In working life practice, I found that everywhere knowledge. I remember when I first participated in the work, each participate in academic conferences, always mind dizzy, do not understand the academic term. So he carefully taking notes, listening to speeches experts do not know and had to ask, to access to information, after a period of hard, dare opening exchanges with experts. I think, learn to listen to both respect for the speaker, as well as their access to key shortcuts to knowledge and information. Meeting or, exchanges worth mentioning, listen carefully to the total harvest. Because, every meeting is after careful meticulous preparation, each report are to undergo repeated changes, each individual’s speech mostly deliberate. Therefore, we are completely unaware of which there are always things of little or incomplete knowledge, I often put excerpts wonderful place for notes, look at re-learning. After an open mind to learn and listen carefully, so that knowledge into their abilities, why not? Through years of study, practice and reflection, I have gradually formed a "confident but not arrogant, with wave rather than by the current, rather than harmony and mud" of doing things criteria.
I like to "see" the word on the left a vertical heart, the right one, "I", "I" is me, is their own. It tells us that only carefully thinking before some experience. What is enlightenment? Enlightenment. What channel is? Is an objective law of development of things. Therefore, knowledge and experience to master regularity, but also to humbly learn, seriously realized, will attain enlightenment through a thorough understanding of the. Ownership of the work rules, will be able to do more with less, improve efficiency, and I feel there is a lot of hearty. Therefore, before making my mind filling modestly, humbly’ll make yourself happy.
Fifth, the heart is a fine balance in life indispensable weight. Careful attention to detail mainly refers. We have read the "details determine success or failure," this book. Mr. Wang Zhongqiu wrote in the preface: "China does not lack Hung Tao Wei slightly strategist, is the lack of creative performer." Can trivial, attention to detail, well, it’s terrible! Recalling the history of development of human society, we find that every major progress of human society are based on the accumulation of attention to detail and the little things above. In this world, few events. If so, partly because the attention to detail and the little things occur to a certain amount of positive accumulation qualitative change, such as the major scientific discoveries; occur partly because no attention to detail and the little things accumulated to a certain extent the negative qualitative change, such as major security accident. Human life is made up of countless details and trivia strung beads. We work too. "The event painstaking, and the little things bigger," has become my work ethic.
Details are a little weight, when success and failure at both ends of the weight scale is quite, the success or failure of this little added weight side, the balance will tilt unto the side. I hope that added to the success of the side, so we can get the joy of success.
Six, intelligence of the heart is the key to lifting capacity. From the heart of the desire for knowledge of intelligence. We used to describe the girls’ Xiuwaihuizhong "is the word, is to illustrate this girl is not only beautiful, but smart. Scientific research shows that: IQ difference between people is unlikely. So why do some people smart, while others slow it? Study concluded that: the key to whether we love learning and thinking. Good at learning and thinking man will become wise. Confucius say, "Learning without thought is labor lost, thought without learning is perilous," is to tell us to think while studying. I summed it up as "thinking at work in thinking; research in learning, learning in the study." Thinking about work and the work of thinking, can continue to enhance our learning ability and ability to work. One day down, look at the gains and losses, right and wrong, in order to carry forward the good style, correct the wrong things. Over time, it will a little bit of progress every day, getting abundant harvest, people will become smarter. Intelligent people know how to live, but also know how to improve the quality of life, how to make yourself and others happy.
Seven, harmonious mood is happy and healthy engine. I agree with this view: people living in the world, there must be a harmony of the mind, there is a harmony of mind. State of mind known as "mind" is both a limited space, Cunhu everyone’s heart, but also a boundless world, like music fly in the air, affect you, me, him, and affect the entire world. Who is the cell of society and harmonious body, mind harmony, in order to conduct harmony, social harmony.
Happiness is quiet healthy body and mind. Heart full of heat, to release heat. Good mood can grow upward force, bad mood could have devastating inert. Republican veteran, calligrapher Yu You-jen, vicissitudes, but indifferent to life, honor since Ann. Someone asked about his longevity of the road, he pointed to the home of a couplet, laughed language. The Union is "not thinking eighty-nine", the second line is "always wanted to twelve." Scroll reads: "smug." Most things in life eight or nine, saying "the most perfect product in the ad, the most perfect life in the eulogy, the most perfect love in the novel, the most perfect marriage in a dream." Why are some people wealth increase in happiness is on the decline? This is mainly a problem of mind. Happiness is a state of mind, you ｃｒｅａｔｅ harmony, sunshine will patronize you. A person because things happen far less damage suffered by his views on this matter is more serious. Attitude has changed, things had changed. If you demand perfection, if the heart is by material, thinking, pessimism and despair will be suffocation mind. The road of life, such as weight-bearing mountaineering, difficult. Often think twelve is the intention of thanksgiving, joy, cherish life that wishful tenth two, so you can gradually into the realm of being indifferent. "Well, I fortunately; err, my life." Nothing more. This will certainly be obtained, should not get indisputable no hurry, make personnel, listen to fate. If you have this kind of mind, we can state in a kind of wisdom, do not shame contented, contentment is not perilous. If you understand this truth, you can "hard work, do not forget that during the lifetime of hell; Tan sway, despite adversity also Cheong days pregnant." Sometimes people will have a sense of loss, it is because we are always in comparison with others. People in the swamp, are in imprisoned. Su stresses "cross as a peak, far different level, do not know the truth, just because in this mountain." Scenery from a different angle is not the same, you are in the world, you are happy, you are the future, you will not lost. Some people say: "Happy is the body and soul of no pain no troubles"; also suggested that: "There is a book really rich, disease-free big fairy"; Some people advocate seeking happiness by subtraction, not necessarily the first step on the road of life there. "would be extremely temporary, "the beauty, take a step back and perhaps there will be" a brighter future. "Someone commented that Bill Gates: the smartest place is not what he did, but he did not do. Nan Huai would like to say: "All truth of the universe, is a minus, very simple." In life than do addition subtraction difficult, will help us do a good job and succeed.
Some people say that when you take things too hard, you can go look at the "three mountains." First, Jinggangshan, China Revolutionary martyrs sacrificed much, and their ratio, we would not be too happy? Second, Putuo Mountain, see the Buddha’s big state, big measure, big mind, great compassion. Third Babaoshan, no matter what level of officials, how wealthy millionaires, to here are flying outside a puff of smoke. In fact, life is a process, not an outcome. Harmonious state of mind, it will aim high, Honor and shame, to courageously without fame and fortune, high moral character and not narcissistic. Harmonious state of mind, it will upright, with people, honorable, healthy and happy.
Eight, tolerance is to win the heart of a happy magic. Tolerance is a gas, it is an accomplishment; tolerance is a gesture, it is a kind of wisdom. We have young and fit, uppity. Looking back now teenagers do, often feel funny and frivolous. In our funny and frivolous certainly hurt a lot of people, a lot of things wrong. Sometimes the other party criticized us, and sometimes each other laugh it off. I think that we are tolerant of each other. In fact, each of us are tolerant of others in a step toward calm and mature. Because of tolerance, rugged mountain can become Hirakawa Avenue; due to tolerance, a bitter enemy can smile can melt away allies and enemies; due to tolerance, life will add a touch of new brilliant, somewhat flat increase tenderness.
Tolerance is a child Zen. Tatu could hardly contain leisurely world of things, people smiling and laughing all ridiculous. This is a Zen state. You and I are mortal, live in this world. Sometimes, do not put yourself too seriously; sometimes, do not take yourself too seriously. Learn to establish the concept of equality, do the usual things, maintain peace of mind. We will understand: Tolerance allows the elderly who feel young and frivolous, so that from the frivolous to calm him; wise tolerance make fools feel ignorant, allowing him from ignorance to knowledge. Learn to be tolerant is to allow himself to caring the elderly, with Wise Zen, thus avoiding trouble, win and happy way.
Nine, faith is the driving force behind the pursuit of happiness. Do you believe in fate? Some people say that the fate of the letter, and some people say the letter fate. I have to make its own interpretation: "Destiny" is a noun, I think people’s "life" is different. Western talk of "men are created equal" is a pack of lies. In fact, life and inequality. Such examples abound. But the "Fate" is a verb. We rely on innate deficiencies acquired struggle to make up, that is, by seeking knowledge to learn to change our destiny, by the ideal to design their own future. A person living in the world would have been unthinkable even their own future, he would not make a difference, but will not succeed; but without action fantasy that simply talking nonsense, absolutely not succeed. Ideal implementation requires perseverance and sustained confidence. Confidence is built on top of their current job, only to do the little things, the immediate thing, to make the ideal realization has some foundation. Ideal boat, sail confidence is only a drum full sail, ideal boat to reach the other side of success. There are dreams have the confidence, passion only creation. Premier Wen stresses "confidence is more important than gold." Therefore, boost confidence, and towards their ideals, there will always continue to successfully close. Close to success is close to happiness.
Ten, thankful heart is a happy person of excellent quality. "Drip grace, the smallest favor." Our short and the long journey of life, that of a good reminder that a gently pull help, that warm cup of winter tea lights that turn the lights on his way home, gave us much to get tired heart moving and warm. When you fail, someone to give you comfort; When you are successful, someone applaud you; when you pain, someone to listen to you talk ...... you also have survival growth of the soil, air, water and sunshine, you also have music, books and freedom of thought.
Thankful to enhance the training, improve the personality, infecting others, his own happiness, which is the power of each of us to move on.