Decide the fate of mind
Philosopher said: "Your mind is your true master." A great man said: "Either you go to control life, or life control you your mind to decide who is the horse, who is jockey.." An artist, said: "You can not extend the length of life, but you can extend its width; You can not change the weather, but you can influence your mood; you can not control the environment, but you can adjust their mentality." Dickens said: a sound mind is more powerful than one hundred kinds of wisdom. Emerson said: A goal is always advancing towards the people themselves, the whole world gave way to him. These words are simple but classic, incisive, a person, what kind of mental state will produce what kind of life a reality, it is undoubted.
So in our lives, any time to adjust their mentality is a very important thing. A person can always have a good attitude, you can make your own outgoing and cheerful; one can always have a good attitude, you can make your own work at any time in life to overcome various difficulties encountered even beat us various suffering; one can always have a good attitude, you can make your own fame status, over the true happiness of life.
Have a positive, healthy, peace of mind will not only help us get health and happiness, can also help us to be successful and hope. Therefore, we must change the old wrong understanding, to re-examine themselves and adjust themselves, who do an inner harmony.
Attitude life. A philosopher once said: "Your mind is your master." In real life, we can not control their own experiences, but you can control your own mind; We can not change others, but you can change yourself. In fact, there is no much difference between people, the real difference is that mentality. So, a person success depends largely on his mind. Have a positive, healthy and progressive attitude, is essential to the success of a person’s quality.
Angry inferior to live up to expectations. There are good times have adversity in life, can not always be adversity; life with peak also have the bottom, can not always be the bottom. Because good or peak and arrogance, or because of adversity or trough and dejected, are not properly look at life. The face of setbacks, if just keep complaining and angry, not the whereabouts of the fate of challenge, to fight, to struggle, and that eventually nothing.
Confident to win. Throughout the ages, many others had failed, the reason, not because of incompetence, but because no self-confidence. Self-confidence is a force, but also a driving force. When a person is not confident, it is hard to do things; When a person does not do anything bad, it will be more self-confidence. This is a vicious circle. To escape from this vicious cycle out, you have to struggle and fail, you have to establish a strong self-confidence.
Heart but also to act. Why not, although the action will not necessarily succeed, but it will not succeed without action. A person’s goal is to start from a dream, a person’s happiness is from the mind to grasp, but a person’s success is realized in action. Only action is our source of strength toward success.
Unbiased essential. Life can not be easy, success and failures; have fun, but also lost. If we take the lives of these gains and losses and the ups and downs too seriously, and that life for us will never calm, never happy. Life should be pursued, but do not let the temporary happiness to influence our daily lives.
Timely harvest will have to give up. Do not bother to force things that are not their own, to learn to timely give up. Timely to give a kind of wisdom. Gave up more clearly enable us to examine our own inner potential and external factors that can make us tired body and mind to adjust and become a wise man happy.
Tolerance is a virtue. As the saying goes:. "Take a step backward, so that sort of calm" That is the need of tolerance between people. Tolerance is a virtue, which enables a person to be respected. Tolerance is a good medicine, it can save a person’s soul. Like a beacon of tolerance, the ability to emit a radiant light in the darkness, illuminating everyone’s mind.
Learn to give their minds relaxed. The human mind is fragile, need frequent encouragement and comfort. Often self-motivation, self-praise, will make the soul happy. Learn to give their minds relaxed, is to give yourself to ｃｒｅａｔｅ a warm haven, timely adjustment of the mind, relax.
Do frustration when failed. Person’s life, no one will inevitably be setbacks and frustrations. The difference is that the loser always setbacks as failures, so each time have been deeply frustrated win their courage; winner is the never-say-die, in the face of setbacks, always said to myself : "I am not a failure, but have had no success."
Happiness is actually very simple. Some people say that happiness is spring flowers, summer shade, autumn berries, winter sky snow. In fact, happiness is all around us. A knowing smile, a sincere handshake, a cordial conversation, is a very happy thing.